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with Lauri Quinn Loewenberg I've dreamt a lot about death lately. I had a dream last week that my boss died. I was at work and we were all dressed up for the funeral. I was crying in my dream and woke up really crying. It was weird.
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I started listening to your radio show—it's great! My question is: I want to be a police officer and I've taken many tests for different departments and I was wondering if I'll be hired by any of them. Will my dream of being a police officer come true?
Dear DK,
Yes, I see you working for the police but perhaps in a different way than you've considered. I get, "The psychology of the criminal mind" for you. I put that in quotes because I'm not sure if that's a book title, or if it becomes your specialty. I see you doing long-term undercover investigations after a two-year segment as a police officer or dispatcher. You'll attend additional schooling to add to this skill and maybe even transfer to the FBI or CIA as a result of your uncanny abilities in this area. Stay focused on this work—it's in your future.
A couple of years ago, I fell in love and had a relationship with an incredible young woman, but at that time I was also involved with another female with whom we share a home. The woman I fell in love with was a friend for many years and that friendship evolved into a relationship. She didn't know about the other woman as she assumed that our living together was platonic. When the truth came out she was devastated, and we haven't seen nor spoken to each other since. Sadly, this woman was my true love, and I was never given the opportunity to set things right—to follow my heart.
Will I ever get to tell her about this and apologize for my action? I know that although I'll never stop loving her, a relationship is out of the question.
Dear HR,
Before you can really apologize, you must make sure you're not involved with any other woman. You were playing both sides of the fence here and though I know you regret that now, it was rather exciting for you at the time.
The burden of the truth is on you now—to both women. You also owe an apology to the woman you were living with while dating your "true love." I'm also stuck on the fact that you referred to your live-in partner as a "female." To demote any woman to the word "female" says to me that you were only referencing her gender status and not the whole person.
If you're really serious about this woman, you can't be living with someone else (and deceiving them). I recommend moving into your own place and then apologizing to your "true love." If she changes her mind about you because you've made this effort, then things can move forward after you've proven to her that she can trust you.
You also owe it to the woman with whom you've been sharing a home to be honest about how you feel. If she's not the person with whom to spend the rest of your life, stop being with her.
I've been chipping away at my financial karma since I moved west, three years ago. I know the crap has to surface so the positives can come through. Even though I feel change coming (I've been feeling it for a few years now), I'm getting more than a little anxious because I've had my feet to the fire for so long.
Dear Desert Girl,
The cards say that the more you reach out to people the more wealth you receive. As soon as you choose a direction (hint: something you love), the more momentum you'll generate. You're a natural "intuitive" and someone blessed with this gift is usually a natural sales-person.
I vote for you representing an exclusive line of cosmetics at Nordstrom's or even independently. You'd also be good at real estate. Mostly I see you've been complacent about choosing a direction; as soon as you do, you have the natural tenacity to make it profitable.
Mona Van Joseph is a licensed professional in the psychic arts through the city of Las Vegas. Her show, Midnights with Mona, airs weeknights on KDWN 720 AM.You may e-mail questions to [email protected].